Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Adding Value

Hello Team,

I have lost many people in my life, my older brother, grandmother my aunts and my mother and father. All the funerals I have attended not once have I ever Heard someone say I told them I loved them to much or I spent to much time with them. last week my ex-father in law passed away, a great man, he loved my children as they were his own he loved his family and his brothers and sisters like an older brother should. If you needed help you can count on Bob, If you needed his truck to move you can count on Bob, If you needed his carpentry you can count on Bob.

On Friday Bob was put to rest. I drove by the funeral, funny thing all those people that counted on Bob were not present when he needed them the most. Three days before the funeral I purchased some flowers from a rite aid store although Bob deserved much better than rite aid. I drove around for thirty minutes trying to find a flower shop in El Monte but could not find one. I purchased these flowers and went to see my ex-mother in law. She was sweet as always. We cried for a life that was lived not for the life that died, for Bob will remain in our hearts for ever he truly lived a remarkable life. He did not have a political position, Did not have a great job, was not a great contributor to his Community but to his Family and my Family He was a great Father, Grandfather, Brother and Son and he will always be remembered in a great way.

Let me ask you something how are you going to be remembered? How much Value are you placing in other peoples life's. Are you out on a limb to help someone you care about. Or is your arm short. On your way to accumulating your Goals are you Losing your Soul? There has never been a sadder story than Judas. He acquired 30 pieces of silver to betray his friend. He felt so bad after wards. He tried to give the money back but they refuse to take it back. He was so discouraged in himself he finally hung himself. You see we have to stand for something or you will fall for anything.

To build a great life you need to stand for something of value, you need to fight for it and defend what you believe in at all cost against anyone that will take it from you. Lets make our life count. That what our For-fathers did and they must have done a great Job because People from all walks of life would rather live here than anywhere else in this world. Let's build something Great. Lets not let our Dreams Die, lets help everyone attain their Dreams so we may attain ours. The only time you should look down upon someone is only if you are giving them your hand to pick them up. Tomorrow lets give more of ourselves to everyone we come in contact with for we don't know when we will be Bob.

Have a Blessed week,
Fidel Hernandez

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