Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Stroke of luck


Hello everyone,

Always around my birthday I experienced life defining moments. We all have those forks in the road when no matter what you do, go straight, right or left your life will never be the same. I didn't hit a brick wall or a bump on the road of life. I truly got hit by a stroke of luck.
Yet this time I did not ask why? All my life I have heard how lucky I am. In school I could absorb all the information and get good grades with out trying. My retention by absorbing information paid off well in the working world.  Bosses have always liked me yet I'm the most confrontational person you will find,  I figure if your doing a great job people should leave you alone. You see I had luck which to my interpretation is  Labor Under Correct Knowledge. I would study people that excel at their careers then I would copy them. I owe my whole career to many leaders that took the time to teach me their craft. Yet through this time my most important lesson by the greatest leader of our time had yet to be thought. My lesson stroke of luck, had to be taught by the greatest teacher that ever lived.

March 24, 2014 started like any other day. I woke up early had several appointments throughout the day. As I was taking my daughter to school every time I would walk I would lean to left as I took my daughter to school it seem to get worse.  As the day progress it got worse finally I went to see the doctor in 5 minutes she gives me her diagnosis.  In a calm voice she utters " don't panic Mr.  Hernandez but your suffering a stroke I already called 911" those words she said resonated in my head and it's if the world stood still everything went silent.  Paramedics took me to the hospital which would be my home for the next 16 days. During that time is when I witnessed real friends rise while others fell into the abyss. As I arrived at the hospital everyone in the staff from the start to the finish were friendly and professional.  As I went through all these test specially the MRI a test where you have to be still for 45 minutes which seems like a lifetime.  I was deep in prayer with my Master asking if the talent he gave me to inspire people did I use it to the best of my ability.  As I was praying I saw my first daughter Tiffany being born then I saw my twins being born Justin and Jason I remembered my grandmother dying my  brother being killed, my father and mother dying then my Genesis being born. The most amazing thing about this experience I wasn't mad at anybody I had complete peace. Keep in mind that throughout my lifetime I have said and done things I'm not proud of and other people have done unbelievable things to me yet I had no regrets and I was at complete peace with everyone.  I kept praying for the future of my Genesis I knew everyone else would be alright if anything were to happen to me. As the test was nearly complete I heard the voice of the technician "Mr Hernandez we are almost done your doing great." As I got out of that capsule I prayed to Jesus it's all up to you now. But I noticed for the first time in my life I wasn't angry or bothered with what happened.  I took in stride and waited for the Master to guide me. As the day progress I got worse, by the second day I was struggling to swallow food. I could not stand and my mind was dizzy and confused. As I lay ed in the hospital bed I thought about all the people I had a chance to meet and fortunate enough to call them my friends. My life was playing in my mind like a movie and as I watched I came to realize what a wonderful life I had lived extreme highs and valley lows. Funny thing when God tells you to slow down and he gives you the time to slow down you really get an opportunity to praise, pray and worship him, Jesus.  During my stay I prayed for God to show me if the talent he gave me If I used it wisely to honor his Kingdom.  That old saying be careful what you pray for.  People from all over the country shared with me how I had impacted their life and how blessed they were for meeting me. My heart melted it felt great to  be appreciated and loved. By people that I respect for their contribution to our society.

 There are some people that stand out during this ordeal. First my girlfriend she literally put her life on hold to help me through this process. I know what you might be thinking,  she's your girlfriend.  But I can tell you from experience no one signs up for that kind of responsibility you have to be committed to the cause.  Because of Jesus putting her in my life she's the reason why I have hope and a future. God himself put her in my path to light my way so I wouldn't stumble in the darkness. To this day she still does a lot for me. For that, thank you sweetheart I will never forget everything you do for me from little to huge things I love you with all my heart.  The next person David Smith someone I trained 2 years ago when he heard what happened he rallied the troops to come visit me, when your in that type of situation it's hard because you feel your all alone, his visit meant a lot to me. Thank you David.  next person Andy Broadway now andy I met 7 years ago, we met in a business venture and remained friends.  We share the same birth month and connected spiritually.  Andy would come at the perfect time with a card or a sentiment that would touch my heart, thank you Andy I will never forget your kindness. George Ramirez and his beautiful wife Olivia how can you possibly thank a couple that keeps you In  their prayers at all times that God guide my path in the light and keep me away from the darkness.  They came to visit me all the way from palos Verde's and prayed over me and offered great words of wisdom. Thank you George and Olivia you will always remain in my heart for ever. Last but not least David Stassel I met dave about 2 years ago at a casual business lunch we didn't talk till about 1 month before this happened,  and during my stay at the hospital he came to visit me several times make sure I was ok stayed and actually visited with me. What makes Dave so special he has his hands full with his career and being there to support his wife during her trials. Even after I got out of the hospital he has still come to visit me and called me to make sure I'm ok. Dave thank you for caring enough to take time away from your family and spending it with me. I will never forget your kindness.  You see it's hard to see a relative in the hospital even harder when it's a friend it's not that we don't care it's just difficult because hospitals are so negative the whole atmosphere in a hospital is negative. For all the people that took the time out of their busy schedules to stopped by and visit me, thank you from the bottom of my heart.
As I struggled everyday from double vision , dizziness and weakness I prayed more leaned on Jesus a little more and I started to see that through this he would redeem me and I would raise his name even more.  The stroke of luck for me I started to read the word more I leaned more on his understanding. The feeling felt great I felt reborn.  The more I prayed and read the more peace I had. started thinking how blessed the disciples were for being able to hear Jesus speak  that must have been amazing.
I remember four years ago when I went through my family separation and felt empty inside, a very close spiritual brother named JW Smith counseled me during a dark period of my life. He had just came back from Africa where his wife is royalty and he showed me pictures of these elaborate tree houses where the wealthy stay overlooking the Serengety . Then he showed me these pictures of these tribesmen, it's like I went back 250 years. As JW continued talking he  explain to me while these wealthy people enjoy the wild, these fearless warriors stayed below at the base of the tree. To protect the people in the tree houses against anything wild that can harm them. Armed with their spears ,weapons and courage to protect the people against anything that could harm them. I will always remembered that story very powerful.  As I reflect on the story I think when we are going through dark trials in our life I believe God places us in that tree house that sanctuary to shelter us from harm and sends an army of everyday people armed with spiritual weapons, courage and faith to protect us from anything wild or evil that would try to harm us.  The warriors have been sent by God all we need is faith of a mustard seed. Funny thing about a mustard seed it's the smallest seed created by God yet with faith that small you can move mountains. It's ok to ask why you are going through a storm just don't lose faith in the process.  Because all things work out for the good for those that believe. Have faith and all this shall pass.

God's cake recipe it's takes different ingredients to make a cake, you need flour, eggs, baking soda, cooking oil and of course an oven. Have you ever tried those ingredients raw? There all horrible one by one you try them they make you sick. Just like going thru these trials one by one their horrible.  if you have the patience to wait mix them all together they taste delicious.  When God allows us to get involved in the kitchen we want to prepare the cake the way we know how and that always creates a bigger mess. This is the first time I didn't question a single thing and allowed God to cook in my kitchen in the process he brought my sister Alma who I had not spoken to in 16 years. He brought back great friends that we both had lost contact with. The most amazing thing he brought back my oldest daughter Tiffany from a four year silence. It truly was a Stroke of Luck now I keep getting closer to him asking the Master Architect what's next in my chapter of life. I anxiously await his response.  I don't want to be the Master Chef any more I will settle for the kitchen helper. I guess I am lucky......
LUCKY.......

·         To be alive

·         To be love by my saviour Jesus

·         To be loved by family and friends

·         To be appreciated by people

On second thought not lucky just Blessed

Thank you Jesus for never giving up on me and thank you for striking my life with your rod as to break my leg and stopping Satan from making me a rack of lamb. May your name Jesus be exalted from every mountain top.

 Keep on baking I'm loving the food
Your humble servant

Fidel